ABOUT ME

I am a beautiful, curvaceous, redhead accustomed to taking control.  As an experienced professional I will be responsive to your needs and desires and in turn, you will surrender to Me and embrace your wildest desires as they come true. 

My sessions are for those ready to explore the depths of submission, discipline and devotion under My strict, yet attentive, control. I will guide and support you, adapting to your pace yet push you to your limits. 

Kink is not just something I do, it is how I live. My open-minded approach allows for authentic, immersive experiences tailored to those who serve Me with sincerity. I care meticulously for My submissive and, in return, I demand courtesy, honesty, and your utmost respect. 

Are you ready to begin?


My interests & KINKS

My pleasure lies in the complete control of your body, your mind and your desires. I take deep satisfaction in understanding your needs, your limits, and exactly how to develop them. Whether through physical domination, mental seduction, or psychological control; I will shape your experience, and then push you further.

My indulgences include but are not limited to:

Age Play

ABDL

Anal Play

Bondage

CBT – (Cock & Ball Torture)

Chastity

Ass Worship

Humiliation / Degradation

Impact & Spanking

Latex, Rubber, Leather & PVC

Tease & Denial

Keyholding

Small Penis Humiliation

Fantasy

Roleplay

Findom

Hand / Foot Worship

Tickle Torture

Collaring –  once earned

Nylon & Stocking Fetish

Pegging

Pet Play

Sensory Play

Slave Training

Slut / Sissy Training

Couples

Maid & Servant Training


Watersports

Wax Play

Shoe & Heel Worship

Mummification

Post Orgasm Torture

Scent & Taste

NON-NEGOTIABLES:

These are my hard limits, which I expect you to respect, as I will respect yours:

  • Illegal services including drug use
  • There will be no sexual activity or nudity on my part, including unclothed face sitting, oral / reverse oral, rimming and full or penetrative sex. 


  • Smoking
  • Hard Sports including vomiting and blood sports
  • No Safeword
  • Activities involving animals or minors
  • Anything that poses a serious risk of harm or threat to life.

Session Examples

Your time with me is built on the individual needs, fantasies and desires. Every commitment is built on the trust and honesty that is built throughout this connection.
These are some popular scenarios that are regularly enjoyed as both phone and in person sessions.

Mummy / Mommy

Does My baby want Mummy to show him what its like to be a good boy for Me. Do you want to cuddle Mummy while I stroke you and tell you what a good boy you are?

Or have you been a bad boy and need to go across my knee? Do you want Mummy to spank your little ass and show you what happens to naughty boys?

Have I caught you wanking again while you watch me change? You are a horny little boy aren’t you?

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Does Mummy’s baby need dressing up like a little girl? You always liked putting on your sister’s clothes, let Mummy dress you up and show you how nice that silky underwear feels. Does that feel good for you? Now do as you are told and put that dress on as well. Maybe Mummy might want you to stay dressed and we can go out shopping together.


Mistress

Does your pathetic little penis need caging?   It isn’t worthy of being allowed out, it is useless. Get in that dungeon now whilst I show you what a sissy you are. You need locking up like the worthless worm you are, you and your cock need caging, get in My Cage. NOW. 

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Do you want to be my sissy slut while I train you how to be the ultimate woman? Take my strap on, like the slut that you are. I am going to bend you over and slide this in you. Oh, does it hurt? That sounds like your problem not mine.

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I am going to restrain and blindfold you, you are going to be sensory deprived whilst I whip you, tease you and spank you.

You will see nothing, you will hear nothing, just rely on your sense of touch to feel what happens. 


Miss / Headmistress / Teacher

What have I told you about being disobedient? Does your bottom need caning. You are such a cry baby, and I don’t need to listen to your whiny cries in my classroom. Pull your trousers down, I am going to make you red raw by the time I have finished. Now let me hear you count out loud as I cane you. You can count can’t you, now say it louder.

Apply To Serve

If you wish to serve Me, you are required to complete My apply to serve form here:  https://forms.gle/ChN9bM9oaq69qvTe7

This sets out what you desire, your boundaries and what works for you. It is an essential requirement that we have a mutual agreement for the basis of any session.

I work from an independent studio in Cheshire which offers a variety of play spaces featuring a fully-equipped dungeon, a bedroom space and classroom space amongst others. The cost of the play space is included in my fee.


You are required to provide your full name and contact details. This is to maintain my own safety. I will not negotiate on this.

I guarantee that your information will remain strictly confidential, I also have both a professional and private life to protect and will adhere to confidentiality and discretion at all times.

Session Etiquette

SESSION ETIQUETTE

All submissives are required to adhere to the following rules during their session:

❖ There is no place for lateness in My world. Arrive 10 minutes before your booking time to allow for admin.

❖ Your time booked is inclusive of you getting ready. If you book 1 hour this is your total time in the studio.

❖ You will address Me as Miss, Mistress, Goddess or Mummy/Mommy.

❖ Tribute, gifts and chastity keys are to be given to Me upon your arrival, I should not have to ask you.

❖ Arrive washed and clean, wearing deodorant.

❖ If anal play prior to your session, you will arrive at the Studio douched. If I find you have not done this or need further clean up, you will be sent to douche and this will be taken in your session time.

Tributes & Engagement 

Tributes

1:1 in-person sessions are by appointment only. Same day appointments or in-calls are not available. 

My in person tribute is currently £200 per hour which includes the studio / dungeon hire. 

Prior to your session, consultation phone calls will be conducted free of charge, however additional calls are charged at £15 per 15 minute call.

For sessions longer than 3 hours please contact me directly to discuss your booking.

Sessions for couples are charged at £250 per hour per couple.


For bookings which include additional services from Be A Lady UK, this is a separate fee and must be paid to Be A Lady UK directly.

A deposit of 25% is required to secure your booking.

Additional Engagement 

Keyholding Only. £35 per week. Key locks can be provided at an additional cost of £10 for your safety key. I expect you to send a specific image of your safety key each day or a penalty will incur.

Keyholding & Daily Messaging Contact.

£75 per week which includes as above, with daily contact including tasks to complete.

Messaging Contact Only.

£50 per week which includes daily contact including tasks to complete. For more information on the format of daily messaging & tasks, request this in your submission form. Excessive messaging will not be tolerated.


Phone Contact. £70 per week. 1 telephone call each day to include a task plus messaging contact. For more information on the format of daily calls & tasks, request this in your submission form.

Tributes via cash payment are available on request with prior agreement. Cash is to be sent to a secure address via recorded delivery for security.

Tributes can also be made via Bank transfer, Throne or Paypal.

Frequently asked questions.

I have tried to answer your frequently asked questions. If your query is not answered here please contact me directly to discuss. 

Deposits

Yes, you will need to pay a 25% deposit to to secure your booking. I understand that you may wish to pay Cash and this can be posted via recorded delivery to a secure address. 

Tributes can also be paid by Paypal, Throne, Amazon Wishlists and Bank Transfer.

Do I need to share my ID?

Yes – My discretion is assured, I will respect your identity and expect you to respect mine in return. However my safety and security are not a compromise. If this is an issue please do not waste our time. 

Sex

We will not be having sex. Full Stop. The End. 

Client Testimonials

Don’t take My word for it – here’s what My clients say:

“This is perfect and just what I wanted, I can’t wait to book again”.

S.

“You are in my head, I can’t stop thinking about this.”

C.

“I always wished I had someone to tell my secret desires too, to share my darkest fantasies and you do that without judging me.”

J.

“You understand me, how I feel and what I want. I have no fear with you.”

D.

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Contact me:
email: mistresslolauk@gmail.com

phone: 07908 440650 – There will be times that I am unavailable due to my schedule. Please send me a message and I will get back to you. Alternatively complete the apply to serve form attached to this website. 

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